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Why is that at the beginning, couples are so sweet to each other, able to compromise and everything. But as time goes, they no longer can stand each other’s bad habits and qualities, and they prefer to say it’s because their feelings had fade? Some say love is blind. Once you fall in love with someone, you ignore all the other bad points. But as your love fades, all the negative points will surface and the relationship turns sour. How to differentiate between love and infatuation? How sure are you when you say you love him/her and not just infatuated with them? If feelings fade fast, that’s infatuation. But how many people actually realized that before they decide to commit themselves to a relationship? Break-up is a very painful decision. But by saying your heart is dead, meaning you no longer love her? Then why is it so difficult to say “ No, I don’t love her anymore”? Yet says it’s very painful to say it. Love is all so complicated and has different definition from different people. Ask a young kid “What is love” and they will tell you many sweet scenarios that will make you realized, actually “ Love can be very SIMPLE”. It’s just the adults who complicate things. Who actually say that when you fall in love, you must think of whether you can marry him/her? Who actually say that because she/he’s not pretty, therefore I don’t love him/her? Who actually say that I know he/she is very nice to me, but because he doesn’t own a car, thus I can’t be with him? Who actually say that because she’s fat, therefore I won’t love her? Who will actually overlook the flaws, and see their flaws in a new perspective? Who will actually love someone for who they actually are, and not for who they want them to be? Who will actually show enough care and concern even 50 years down the road of being together? Who will actually stand by his/her love one, even when he/she know his/her love is suffering from terminal illness? Who will always have his/her love one in mind, and their love will never waver despite all those attractions? Who will actually have such great rapport and understanding that he/she will know what is his/her counterpart’s thinking and what she/he wants even without him/her saying anything? If you are able to do some of the above “who will actually..”, I salute you! This kind of person is a gem among the stone. But they do exist, just that they are not obvious to busy people like us who doesn’t seems to care anything. It’s just me and me alone that matters. "When you love someone for who his/her flaws and not in spite of the flaws, then you have found the love for life.."
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